Measuring 8 inches lengthy and weighing 6.7 ounces, the Extremely Wand is shorter and lighter than most different wand vibrators I’ve tried. For a way of comparability, Hitachi’s Magic Wand and Le Wand’s Massager, two fan favorites, measure 12 inches lengthy and weigh 1.2 kilos and 13 inches lengthy and weigh 1.5 kilos, respectively. This makes the Extremely Wand extra accessible to of us with hand mobility or wrist power challenges (and a greater decide for marathon intercourse classes on the whole).

Coated prime to backside in silky, body-safe silicone, the FemmeFunn Extremely Wand is easy to the contact. Run your palms over its size, nonetheless, and also you’ll really feel that all the toy feels barely bumpy—one other plus. Added texture could make intercourse extra pleasurable for many individuals with vulvas, in line with intercourse and relationship professional Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD, affiliate professor within the division of human communication research at California State College. “Textures and sensations on the clit and vulva can deliver novelty to the physique and thoughts, which may be extra thrilling than experiencing the identical easy floor on a regular basis,” she tells SELF.

How I attempted it (and the way it went)

Earlier than I took the Extremely Wand for its first take a look at drive, I spent a while determining how the buttons labored and biking via all 10 settings. I used to be thrilled to find that the toy’s spherical head is the solely half that vibrates. If all the wand buzzes—as is usually the case—my hand often finally ends up going numb whereas utilizing it. Not superb.

When it was ultimately time to get down and soiled, I shut my pup out of my bed room, turned on my intercourse playlist, and stripped to my skivvies. Normally, I maintain my underwear on after I masturbate to buffer the vibrations. However I used to be excited to find that as a result of the Extremely Wand is smaller than most different wand vibes I’ve used, it additionally has a smaller motor, which makes the vibrations much less intense. Surprisingly, I used to be in a position to benefit from the sensations immediately on my pores and skin.

I really like the texture of the silicone on my vulva. It was silky and skin-like to the contact—not sticky or cheesy, as may be the case. And the knobby texture undoubtedly stood out: Every time I shifted the top of the vibrator a millimeter or two, the sample added a bit of additional one thing.

All in all, I ended up having fun with 3 orgasms in slightly below 17 minutes with the Extremely Wand. (Sure, I had a timer going within the identify of investigative journalism). That is spectacular, provided that I often can’t use wand vibrators for quite a lot of minutes earlier than their weight fatigues my arm.

Making an attempt it with my associate

My associate and I reside in numerous states, which implies quite a lot of our sexual intimacy includes giving the opposite play-by-plays of our solo classes—generally FaceTiming one another whereas we get busy. By the point my associate and I have been in a position to strive the Extremely Wand collectively within the flesh, they’d already heard me wax poetic concerning the toy and seen its impact on me, so that they have been excited to make use of it with me.